How can you deal with negativity?...

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Have you ever wondered how you can deal with negative people or negativity in life? Well, it's so simple, but your concentration is needed. Simply follow the three steps below. 

Step 1: Focus on yourself: It doesn't matter what happens to your life, but what matters is what you do with what happens. You are supposed to focus on yourself rather than on the circumstances you have in life. Extra focus on circumstances always makes you negative. You are a changed person every single moment and so are your circumstances. When you raise your energy level, a little bit more, you can see that your circumstances do change. This happens because you are always the creator of your reality. You are blessed with Bioplasticity, which means you can self regulate your biochemistry. You can bring necessary changes into how your system works, on demand. When you face negativity, you are capable of taking yourself away from that. Focus on something else. As you do on your smart phone you can install only the Apps that keep you positive and uninstall every single App that is negative, in yourself. Start your day with a 5- minute meditation in which you instill yourself with positivity.  Know that your brain is the software system, where you can program the life you want. At the time when you face disturbance from the negative people, you have to tell them, looking in their eyes that they are absolutely wrong and need some help. Tell them that you still love them no matter how they behave at you. Love is a powerful weapon with which you can conquer the whole world. 

Step 2: Never try to resist the Negative people: If you try to resist the negativity or negative people, you are also getting negatively polarized. It makes the matter worse, strengthening the total negativity. Tell them what you have to tell looking them in eyes and add that you can only love them and instead of feeding their negativity just remove yourself from the situation. The spark of love from you may or may not change their behavior but you don't have to get worried about it.  Understand that your circumstances are the issue. Not you. Change your mood listening to some music or going for a walk or doing something you like the most. It's pretty difficult to change the negative people as they are firmly stuck in the weird reality they have made for themselves. Know that you don't have anything to do with their reality. What you can do is change yourself and this is how you can change them. Throw them away out of your life forever as you do with a piece of rubbish. Understand the fact that some people have to take many different birth cycles of the same level of consciousness to correct their entropy and put themselves on the right track. Whatever happens, your lessons are repeated until you get them corrected and this is how life works. 

Step 3: A shift in life: You have to forgive the negativity or negative people you have had. Practice forgiveness. Whatever happens to you, be it good or bad, you have to take it as the stepping stone for the next level. Never get stuck on the same step with feelings, because your feelings eventually become your reality. Use love as your tool to function. Change what doesn't work for you to what does. Love, like God, is infinite and that's what you have, to deal with any negativity....